Online Dating Is Not A Competition

Dating online is not a contest between competing men for the attention of the females. Evolve. Change your mindset from "winning" to "searching". This isn't high school. You are grown up and have been for a while now. Your attitude is the most important asset you have. You should respect yourself and not focus on all of the things that are YOUR idea of the perfect guy - the one all the women demand.

What is it that women want, you wonder? That's the classic question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don't want.

Women want a man to be confident - NOT a cocky jerk. There's a big difference. You need to respect yourself and not be self-depreciating but it isn't required that you come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky. They don't want you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are a version of some perfect being, either. They aren't capable of delivering on that expectation.

Ladies want a communicator. The "strong silent type" really isn't appealing at all. They think you probably don't have a genuine thought in your head and you probably haven't heard one word they said either, or that you basically don't care what they said or didn't even hear what they said. They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you, and they want you to believe that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what they care about, too.

Ladies do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They don't want to be a trophy. They want to be the ONE woman that you want to date.

To learn more about effective methods for meeting the ladies, and the dating gurus who have developed effective systems for approaching them, I suggest you Google these terms: "neil strauss", "mystery method" and "double your dating deangelo". And remember: alter your mindset from "winning" to "searching". Let the hunt begin!

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